So this may come a shock to all of you...but I have write it out. My ex-girlfriend and I have been broken up for a while now, but we still talk and communicate. And although I've tried to get over her, I just can't. All this came to head Sunday when I finally realized how much I screwed up and that I really do miss her. I miss her profusley. It almost makes me sick to my stomach. We didn't have a bad break up at all...in fact I think makes it worse. So here I am on Monday at a crossroad. I've gotta have her back. One of the reasons she left is becasue of my inability to committ when I should had. I was committed to her, but not to marriage, although I wanted that. Just not at the time. Well, funny, I want it now. So I did the unthinkable yesterday. I went, picked out a super nice ring, got my tux all cleaned up, and met her at her apt last night. I wrote some words that I expressed to her and then got on one knee and asked her to be my wife.................................... She said............................................. I'll have to think about it.....I just need time. One can look at this in different ways. She didn't say no...but it wasn't yes. We've been apart for a little while so now she says she's confused. This is good. It means she's thinking really hard. So I talked a little longer and backed up what I had said before......now its up to her. I left the ring there along with the letter. Now I have to wait....and wait....and wait....but I'll wait till she says yes. For those that read this, pray, or do whatever it is you do and get in my corner. I need all the help I can get here. I love this woman so much. I don't want to spend another day without her. Advice would be nice too...what do you think she'll say? Should I reinforce my statements once more or should I just not call her and let her come to me? I"m so stressed and worried. I did this because I don't want any regrets ever. Now I'll really know how she feels.
posted by: hamy (reply)
post date: 03.24.04 (6:33 am)
Good for you for stepping up to the plate! Now, go to the florist and have some roses delivered to her pronto!! She needs time to think but you need to reinforce your committment!! DO IT NOW! (and for the record, I am a 41 year old woman who was married for 21 years...just so you know I know what I am talking about!)
Justin.. please dont send the flowers.... not yet... maybe when you contact her to find out her answer... dont push her..... please.... waiiitttt.... if you do.. do it the day your going to talk to her about her answer...
